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It's time to recalibrate your inner world and raise your frequency (because energy matters). Establish your unique 'Dating Code', and discover how to navigate modern midlife dating with clarity & confidence. Heal from past heartbreaks, and date & relationship as a High-Value Queen so you can attract conscious, healthy love into your world.
Modern midlife dating is frustrating the fuck out of you
Tired of all the ghosting, endless swiping, and shitty matches? Get ready for the ultimate online dating overhaul. Once you have implemented the High-Value Queen strategy you'll be magnetizing the right-fit partners to you like bees around a honey pot.

Conversation starters? Oof, I have anxiety.
It feels more like a task than fun. Knowing what you want and understanding your intentions behind dating is the magic elixir you need so you can spark up conversations on a dime

My Type? Emotionally Unavailable.
It’s time to reparent your inner child so that she never runs the show again. No more neediness, insecurities popping up when you least expect it or getting hooked into wild fantasies that never transpire

I don’t know what I actually want
Mixed messages will never work and always attract the ones that will waste your time. So buckle up baby. It’s time to make yourself a priority and elevate YOUR standards so you can start getting what you really want in relationships, intimacy, connection, and the boudoir

“You called me out on my behaviour and patterns, no one had ever done that before, and it made me wake the fuck up. You have taught me how to rewire/reprogram myself and above all, you always reassured me that it was ok to be me in life and my relationships”

-WENDY BEE

  • Date and relationship as a High-Value Queen who knows who she is, and her non-negotiables. Who understands the importance of dating and turning herself on. And way more importantly knows how to take good care of herself as she dates and relationships (so she never loses herself in another relationship ever again). 
  • Create your very own 'Dating Code' which acts as your North Star so you know exactly what you are looking for (clarity is magnetic), and how to set and maintain boundaries whilst dating and in relationships.
  • Clearing the past so you step into your dating & relationship desires. Understand how your attachment style & inner child influence who you attract. Heal past heartbreak and those wounded parts of you so they are no longer running the show. 
  • Discover your Dating Alter Ego. It’s time to raise the damn bar on what currently 'wows' you and understand WHY (& how) you need to reset your set point for pleasure, joy, and happiness if you want to attract a better caliber of partner. 
  • Demystify masculine and feminine energies and discover how these teachings can actually cockblock you from meeting potential right-fit partners. 
...and having the skills and wisdom to cultivate a conscious relationship that is based on trust, honesty, respect, playfulness, deep intimacy, great communication and sensational sex.
Yes, there are million and one dating & relationship courses out there. BUT there are NONE focused on supporting and guiding midlife women.

That changes right now.

Hey, I'm Star Monroe, 52. Married and divorced twice. Actively dating for the past year.  

I'm gonna make a confession. I've made a lot of mistakes in dating and relationships. Yet from these mistakes, I've collated volumes of wisdom on what to do, and what not to do in the midlife dating and relationship arena.

Many years ago I used to equate sex with love and in the process, I slept with many, many men (& women). Both my marriages were harsh lessons in what worked for me and what didn't. I spent my 30s bouncing from one destructive relationship to another, where the men showed their 'affection' with their insults and fists. 
 
The hardest thing I've ever had to do (and I mean harder than giving up a 7 year addiction to cocaine) was to leave an 8-year codependent relationship. Where I truly believed this person was my soulmate and we were destined to be together forever.  Looking back, urgh this was such a toxic time in my life and drained every resource I had. Making the decision to leave this man was and still is the proudest moment of my life.

You see I come from a background of believing I wasn't enough, that somehow I was broken, not worthy of great love, affection and connection. These were all lies by the way, I was just deeply wounded.

It's taken me years of deep inner work and commitment to my personal evolution and I can honestly say that today I no longer feel like this.

I feel worthy, valuable, grounded, calm, focused, energised and supremely confident in who I am and what I want (both in and out of the boudoir).

And, I know this is possible for you too. Even at midlife, ESPECIALLY at midlife. And it won't take you years to figure this out (cos I've done all the groundwork for you). In fact, give me one month, show up for all the calls, be prepared to do the inner work and I know you will revolutionise how you show up in dating and relationships.

When you embody your rightful place as high-value Queen you no longer have to wonder if they like you, cos it's all about if you like them. You won't settle for anything less than you truly deserve and way more importantly you finally repel those fuckboys and start attracting high-caliber suitors that are a perfect fit with your beliefs, values & intentions. 
Midlife Dating School is a LIVE program. We start on 12th May and complete on 11th June.

  • Create your own 'Dating Code' that you can refer back to again and again (so you never lose yourself in dating/relationships ever again)
  • Healing past heartbreak and wounding so you can magnetize those right-fit partners
  • Learn life-altering skills that keep you grounded and calm (whatever comes your way in the dating/relationship world)
  • Full access to Dating Detox (the ultimate guide on getting ready to date)
  • 4 x in-depth coaching + Q&A calls focusing on how you can date, relationship, and create intimacy as a high-value Queen.
  • 1 x group coaching session 100% focused on your online dating strategy, and how to elevate your profile
WEEK ONE
IDENTITY + NORTH STAR + RELEASE THE PAST 
This week we deep dive to lay your foundations. Who are you, what do you have to offer, and way, more importantly, what are you looking for? Plus a deep cleansing ritual of past heartbreaks and hurts.

WEEK TWO
HEALING + BOUNDARIES + LIBIDO ACTIVATION
Discover why you have to reparent your inner child if you want to attract conscious, healthy love (and how to do it). Establish boundaries like a high-value Queen, and frolic in the playfulness of you activating your midlife libido.

WEEK THREE
NERVOUS SYSTEM RESET + PROJECTIONS + ATTACHMENT MOJO
Discover how your attachment style influences your internal 'picker', how to stop projecting your insecurities outwards, and how to self-soothe so you can handle the inevitable dating and relationship bumps in the road.

WEEK FOUR
DATING CODE + MASCULINE/FEMININE ENERGIES + DATING ALTER EGO
Unlock the secrets to date and relationship as a high-value woman, learn Dominatrix tips and tricks to amplify your confidence, and discover how to cut through the BS around masculine and feminine energies so can tune into what really works when you want to attract conscious, healthy love into your world. 

'Tracey no longer bases her worth on the identities other people have given her (goodbye people-pleaser/good girl), she knows she is a high-value Queen who other people love to be around. She has let go of her fantasy of meeting ‘the one’ and is having so much fun being taken out and spoiled by her army of suitors.'

-TRACEY HARRIS

MEET

STAR MONROE

(the official bio)

Master coach & psychotherapist with 30+ years experience, leading women to love themselves, put themselves first and live a more turned on and passionate life. Here to help you step into your Fierce Matriarchal Queen Era and leave behind that outdated princess mentality.

Sick of the bullshit lies fed to women since the dawn of patriarchal society, it’s my mission to show women what life can be like in midlife and beyond – because it’s an amazingly powerful time to do what you want when you want it. Uplevel the FUCK out of your life, once and for all so you can thrive and reemerge in midlife
MY FULL STORY
  • Certified British Psychotherapist. MBACP
  • Master's Degree in Exercise & Health Behaviour 
  • Somatic therapist, Body Psychotherapy training with Embodied Relational Therapy
  • Relationship coach, Institute for Conscious Sexuality and Relationships
  • Sex, love & dating coach. The Tantric Institute of Integrated Sexuality
  • Eating psychology coach, Institute for the Psychology of Eating
  • 4 x in-depth coaching + Q&A calls focusing on how you can date, relationship, and create intimacy as a high-value Queen.
  • Full access to Dating Detox (the ultimate guide on getting ready to date)
  • 1 x group coaching session focusing your online dating strategy, and how to elevate your profile
  • Create your own 'Dating Code' that you can refer back to again and again (so you never lose yourself in dating/relationships ever again)
  • Healing past heartbreak and wounding so you can magnetize those right-fit partners
  • Learn life-altering skills that keep you grounded and calm (whatever comes your way in the dating/relationship world)

SELF-INVESTMENT $999

ENROLMENT IS NOW CLOSED

'I have learned to slow down and prioritise myself over everything else. I am way clearer about what I want and this in itself has stopped my self-doubt and anxiety around striking up conversations with men. I have also stepped outside my comfort zone big time, I now go dancing weekly on my own and am asking men to dance (rather than wait to be asked). I feel more confident and am loving my new flirting skills.'

-COCO HEISER

NEW TO DATING?

If you're new to dating or not ready to invest in Midlife Dating School this time round. Then Dating Detox has your name on it. This is a powerful self-study program and is the first step in your midlife dating journey. This program gives you a whole pre-dating toolkit so you can sashay into the dating world with confidence, clarity & sass.

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FAQS

Is this program just for women?
Yes, this program is created just for the midlife woman who is ready to show up in dating and relationships as a High-Value Queen.

How is this different than dating detox? 
Dating Detox is a self-study program that is 100% focused on you getting ready to date. Midlife Dating School is a LIVE course (group coaching + Q&A) where the focus is on deep transformation from the inside out and follows this process; disrupting your inherent conditioning, healing your past wounding, and teaching you the skills to show up in your dating and relationship world as a High-Value Queen. 

Can I take this if I’m already in a relationship?
Yes! Especially if you find you are losing yourself in the relationship, feel needy, insecure, and/or don't know how to express what you want. 

Do I get 1:1 time with you?
You don't get any private 1:1 time with me, yet this course is the perfect blend of group coaching, dating/relationship wisdom/strategy and Q&A. Expect powerful shifts in this unique environment.

Do you have a refund policy?
Zero refunds Queen. All sales are final.
Deeply know who you are and what you want. Never lose yourself again in any relationship ever again, and have the life-changing skills to attract conscious, healthy love into your world.