When was the last time you felt...


  • wildly alive, with every cell in your body buzzing with energy and passion?

  • joyously captivated by life's wonders, completely enchanted by the beauty and magic around you?

  • woke up every day excited, with playfulness and adventure as your guiding forces?

  • irresistibly desired and adored, radiating an allure that turned heads and captivated hearts?

  • your libido was soaring, with a spark inside you blazing so brightly it was impossible to ignore?

If you're scratching your head trying to remember...

Don’t go anywhere! It’s time to let go of the outdated belief that your sensual days are behind you. I’m here to help you reignite your smoldering, wildly alive self and fully embrace the vibrantly confident woman you truly are.

  • You've been neglecting yourself, and when you dare to put yourself first, guilt creeps in.

  • People are whispering about your moodiness, and it's not the reputation you deserve.

  • Life's become a tedious chore, and you've forgotten how to indulge in its pleasures.

  • You feel like you're being dragged through life, clueless about your destination.

  • Body changes have you rattled, and you're camouflaging your radiance in drab, oversized outfits.

  • You're constantly seeking external validation from men, which only serves to undermine your self-worth and confidence.

  • Skyrocket your confidence

  • Be wildly captivated by life

  • Feel fabulously radiant in your own skin

  • Draw spectacular opportunities to you

  • Embrace your boldest, most vivacious self

  • Rekindle the spark with yourself and reignite your journey of sassy self-love

  • Decenter men and center your darn self, making yourself the A-Lister in your life story.

  • And have way more fun with life!

Then you're in the right place. Let's make it happen!


Then you are going to absolutely adore...

SO YOU CAN...

a) Take centre stage in your life and flaunt your fabulous self with confidence!

b) Infuse your life with more fun, play, and joy, and become an energetic match to the fabulous things you truly desire.

c) Deepen your connection with yourself and ignite your inner spark to feel cherished and adored, recognizing your worth and refusing to settle for less.

d) Boost your confidence and strut through life with elevated standards, attracting what you deeply desire by being your own discerning matchmaker.

You see if you don't know how to date yourself, turn yourself on and fill your own darn cup with love & attention...

...you'll keep on seeking fulfillment from external sources, and never truly get what you desire in life. The secret? It's all an inside job, and it's up to YOU to master it. So, are you ready? Let's dive in and make it happen!

Each week, you'll receive 5-7 playful and enticing play assignments designed to elevate your confidence, awaken your inner sexy, and refine your desires. These aren't ordinary tasks; they're your steps toward reclaiming the high-standards woman you truly are, one who respects her time and energy. Here's a tantalizing glimpse of what's in store:

💃🏻 Indulge in sensual movement

💌 Discover the potency of secret love notes

🔮 Craft seductive rituals

🍑 Experiment with erotica

😉 Play dress-up (or dress down)

📿 Adorn yourself in ways that make you feel fabulous

📸 Master the art of the selfie

🪞 Engage in transformative mirror work

These play assignments are designed to infuse your life with a triple shot of fun, playfulness, and sass, enticing you to step out of your comfort zone and into your sensual zone.

  • Manage life's twists with ease and unshakeable confidence

  • Ignite deeper connections and conversations with the people around you

  • Decenter men and stop seeking validation and adoration from external sources.

  • Know in your bones how valuable you are.

  • Secure more of what you crave by boldly asking for it

  • Attract superior opportunities like a magnet

  • Dress to impress every single day

  • Radiate energy and vibrancy

  • Turn heads and make a statement wherever you go

  • Boost your body confidence to new heights

  • Enjoy blissful, rejuvenating sleep

  • This is a self-guided program designed for you to navigate at your own pace

  • Dive into over 20 fabulous play assignments, unveiled in glamorous weekly bursts. Each week, unlock 5-7 new challenges, perfectly spaced over 30 days to ensure you savor each moment without feeling overwhelmed. This gorgeous approach lets you luxuriate in each week’s delights, one fabulous step at a time

  • Access to our private playlist on Spotify

  • Lifetime access to the course content

  • 4 x weekly inspirational love letters (emails) that will guide you deeper into this fabulous love affair with yourself

I promise that by the end of the 30 days, if you've dedicated yourself to the daily play assignments, your ability to experience greater joy, fun, sexiness, boldness, and confidence will have radically amplified. The way this course is structured, you can anticipate a profound cellular transformation that will be yours forever.

  • You come with an open mind
  • You are prepared to do things differently
  • You are committed to making yourself a priority
  • You are ready to play with life again
  • You promise to leave all your moans & groans at the door.

Self-investment $299

When I signed up for this course, I was really struggling with who I was. I had lost me. I had become a wife and mother and worker. I lost who I had been and the fun and laughter that I used to have. I'm slowly evolving back into the person I want to be. My goal was to try every play assignment and I have found that I am dancing around the house more. I am wearing what makes me sexy. I went out and got my first tattoo and botox. Not only am I learning more about myself, but I am finding out new things about myself too. I am pushing myself out of my comfort zone and really loving who I am evolving into. I would tell any woman who is considering this program to do it. It is a safe, encouraging environment with amazing women and the 30 days will fly by and you won't want it to end. You will be surprised and excited to continue learning more about yourself.

Erin Merrill

At the beginning of the course, I was feeling quite unmotivated, and unclear/unsure of what I was wanting. I was also really struggling with my relationship and knew that I needed some space and time for myself, so the timing of the course was perfect! My biggest A-HA was that I don’t make myself a priority. As a result of the course, I am feeling more playful, more curious, more free, and even perhaps a bit more sensual. There have been some big releases and awareness around behaviors that I hold on tight to that do not serve me. What's different now is that I am focusing more on what makes me feel good and makes me feel good about ME. Oh, and my relationship has shifted too (in such a good way!)

Lisa-Maria Priester

When I first started this course, I had been out of a relationship and on my own for 5 years. I hadn’t really paid attention to myself during this time. I kind of gave up on myself and finding my happiness. Star Monroe and “The Love Affair helped me wake up those parts of me that I had ignored all of these years, or that I had not been comfortable with. I have learned how to love myself better. To appreciate all the womanly areas of myself, my body, my mind, my sexuality and to celebrate them in ways I had never done before. Star makes you feel very comfortable and her techniques have taught me how to relax, to feel, see and treat myself better. What I have learned in the past 30 days, will continue to stay with me on my journey, and with the help of the Star Monroe methodology, I am becoming the Queen/Goddess that I meant to be! 

Sherrie Moore

At the start of the course, I had lost my libido/spark/desire, especially sexually and I had allowed myself to make excuses. I believed it was all down to hormones and menopause so not much I could do. The biggest aha moment came when I noticed how I wanted to control so much of myself and put things into boxes. I was getting in my own way. I believed I needed to change who I am to be more playful when in reality I needed to accept all parts of me and know that they can all exist alongside each other - its not black and white or an either-or. This is what makes me uniquely ME. I now feel lighter and freer, and I have found new pleasure and enjoyment in self-touch and how my body looks. I really like myself and my body and I feel so much more confident in who I am.

Dawn Radford

"At the beginning of the course, I just knew I had to shake up how I saw myself and start being kinder to me. I was pretty pumped about what the course had in store and up for a real adventure. Didn't have a clue about the stuff we'd be up to, and that alone nudged me out of my comfort zone big time. Now that I've finished up the course, I can tell you this – I've got a way better handle on who I am, and I've picked up some solid tricks for looking after myself, too. By the time the course was coming to an end, I can honestly say I've dug deeper into my own world. I'm getting a better grip on what makes me tick and how to pack my life with good vibes and things that light me up, all on my own terms. Let me tell you, hanging out with Star has rocked my world. If you're thinking about giving this course a shot but aren't quite sure, take it from me: take that leap. Commit to giving yourself a shot at The Love Affair, and watch how it can shake things up in your life. 💕🌟

Emma B

I at the beginning of the course I was busy with life. Overwhelmed and I didn’t know whether I would have time to fit it in – but signed up anyway! My biggest takeaway from The Love Affair was that I loved prioritizing my pleasure every day. Even if it was for 10 minutes dancing or half a day relaxing with everything switched off – it filled up my pleasure bucket!  I am learning to slow down, it is a pattern I am learning to become more aware of, and am making a conscious decision every day to prioritize myself over everything else. I have also stepped outside my comfort zone big time, I go dancing weekly on my own and now ask men to dance (rather than wait to be asked). And I am learning to love my body more and have reframed what being sexy means to me. Star has opened up the door to a life where I am the leading lady in it!

Coco Heiser

I just loved The Love Affair. Star Monroe holds it in such a lovely way and she smoothly makes us change and reconnect with ourselves. It is 30 days full of excitement, surprises, and challenges. You will learn about yourself, what lights you up and perhaps you will find and connect to your inner goddess, the one who loved to play and laugh a lot! I recommend this journey for every woman, especially those who are 50+, like me!

Claudia Nogueira

Who's running this show?

Well, that would be me! Star Monroe, 53 y/o firecracker at your service! Between you and I, I'm having the time of my life (and you need a woman like me in your world if you too, desire to feel wildly alive).

A little back story: I come from a life of destructive patterns (addictions, alcoholism, DV, bankruptcy, severe body hate) AND I'm out the other side, absolutely THRIVING in my 50's.

I am a licensed psychotherapist, body psychotherapist, sex, love & dating coach, and conscious relationship therapist plus a retired showgirl & exotic dancer. 

I love to flirt with life, ask for what I want, live out loud & flamboyantly. If you are desiring more fun, more sensuality then join the Love Affair Revolution. These 30 days are not only going to transform how you feel & how you look at life but will act as a touchstone for what is available to you as you sashay through life.

FAQ'S

Is this a self-guided course?

This is a self-guided course designed for you to navigate at your own pace. You'll receive play assignments spread out over 30 days, with new tasks introduced weekly for four weeks. Plus, you'll have lifetime access to all the content.

Do you offer refunds?

No. Once you have signed up you are declaring you are fully committed to this fabulous experience.

How much time do I need to dedicate to the course?

Daily play assignments will take 5 - 15 mins of your time. You can make all the excuses in the world about not having enough time, but you and I both know, when you really want to do something, you WILL find the time. Invest your energy and time into yourself and watch everything shift in your favour.